How many times have we heard this justification for the right of a woman to abort her baby?
But it’s not just pregnant women who justify themselves this way.
In the context of sex within marriage, Paul bluntly writes, “The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does” (1 Cor. 7.4). At this level we understand the husband owns his wife and the wife owns her husband. We don’t have a right to do whatever we want with our own bodies.
But even single men and women don’t own their bodies, because we all have an owner. Backing up just a couple of verses to the previous chapter of 1 Corinthians, we read:
“Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” (1 Cor. 6.18-20)
Brothers and sisters, God owns us–all of us–including our bodies. We do not have a right to do whatever we want with our bodies.
Think about this in context of masturbation. “But it’s my body!” we insist.
Think about this in context of eating and drinking to excess. God labeled those gluttony and drunkenness, both of which He strongly condemns.
Think about this in context of looking upon a woman to lust after her. “But these are my eyes, and I’m not harming anyone!” Jesus thinks differently, and He commanded, “Everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away…And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away…” (Matt. 7.27-30).
If you think about each of these sins (and many others), they hold in common a desire to please ourselves, to indulge our bodies, to cater to our fleshly appetites. Selfishness and sensuality rule. But what if we understand we are not our own–God owns us, and He has the authority to tell us what to do with our bodies because He purchased them with the blood of Jesus? Doesn’t that change our perspective?
Whenever we justify ourselves by claiming, “It’s my body!” we stand in rebellion against our Creator who made our bodies and who explains how we should use them. Instead, as the bride of Christ, we should present ourselves to Him pure and holy, keeping ourselves from defilements of the flesh. The world reminds us of all the things we’re missing, all the fun passing us by. But when we stand back and look at all the world’s broken relationships, STDs, and drug addictions, we realize how lovely God’s ways really are!
Since we have these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from every defilement of body and spirit, bringing holiness to completion in the fear of God. (2 Cor. 7.1)